Build the IDGAF Muscle

Getting in front of the camera again has taught me one things fellas

And that is..

I had completely forgotten how to do it. 

I quickly realised if I wanted to get better, the key was doing it every every day, which I’ve been doing via my Instagram stories.

Here’s the thing - whether it’s walking up to a girl on the street or talking into the camera for the world to see, the same skill gets trained:

The 'IDGAF' muscle (‘I don’t give a fuck’).

When guys start cold approaching and don’t die after that first approach, that’s often enough to inspire the second one. Because approach often feels like life and death to a newbie. But, how did that guy even get to where approaching felt like life and death though? In my opinion that’s where conditioning really screws us up.

The wrong conditioning, I mean.

If you ever want to see what zero approach anxiety looks like, look at a toddler at a party.

That chubby geezer is going up to everyone and starting conversations. His opener, “goo goo ga ga” (it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it) is engaging, and he gets a 100% positive reply rate.

But somewhere along the line, life gets us, and we get it into our heads to be afraid of social interaction and decide to live in our heads instead. Years roll by, and all of a sudden we’re reading an email like this trying to work out how to get it back.

Well fellas, imagine if you could not only speak to strangers (hot women) with toddler like fearlessness, but with the skill-set (and possibly intention ;) ) of Casanova as well. How would that feel? Pretty damn good right.

That is exactly what my three-step system focuses on helping you to make a reality.

(See, I even have a cute infographic to show the system.) 

The same system that guided a 52-year-old cold approach beginner into slaying Ukrainian hotties and women three decades his junior (by the way, before you accuse me of using derogatory language toward women ‘slaying’  - 95% of women have a vampire fantasy, and in that fantasy they are not the vampire so I am actually speaking womanese). 

And speaking of my three step system, if you want to talk through your own sticking points in your dating journey then you can book a free coffee chat with me here (don’t worry, I’m not going to try and sell you on working with me - if we get on, we’ll do that in another call). 

Next week, I’m going to talk about the dark side of the dating journey. Why we really do this stuff. Hint - Not to go all Jung on you, but 'The Shadow' is most men’s biggest source of untapped energy.

When I fully adopted mine, I got laid with a completely new girl within 24 hours.

Ps btw, word of warning - 'The Shadow' uses rather cursory words and doesn’t exactly speak the Queens English, so next weeks email might be a little more abrupt than you are used to. Apologies in advance, my shadow did most of the writing.